Funny it may seem that people all over the world, whether black or white, young or old are searching all their lives and spending all their time trying to search for that very one perfect match. But let me ask, how do you know if he is the one? Will there be signs? Signals? Symbols? Or whatsoever you wish you may call it to indicate that he is really the one? I have heard a lot of people say that you will know if he is the one when that special sensation called love is knocking at your heart one day and by that time, you will know then that he is the one. Sounds like convincing right? But let me ask again, how do you know if it is true love or just something else? Can someone tell me what love is?
What then is love? They say it is a feeling aiming straight from the heart. But is it merely a feeling? A sensation? A feeling of bliss or happiness you felt when that person is around and that as if your heart is beating so fast and so loud that he or she could almost actually hear it? Is it just a sense of admiration for the good looks and talents of that person? Tell me is that what you call love? Well, I do not think so!
One must be willing to accept the qualities of that man or woman in order for a person to experience the true meaning of love. For love means to accept the person’s darkest aspects and not just the qualities that are most appealing. It takes a great act of will and courage to do so. So you see, love is not just a feeling coming straight from the heart like what most teenagers say today but rather it is an act of willingness to accept a person for who he or she maybe.
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